You'll notice that I've not-so-subtly changed my alliterative 'Manic Monday' title to 'Panic Monday.'
For which there's a very good reason.
The other day as my
roommate/best friend was discussing applying for a well-paying job in her field,
I had a really unsettling, startling thought that has continued to unnerve me
from the moment I had it:
I will likely never be
financially stable in my field unless I’m successful at publishing a manuscript.
It’s true that I’m a working journalist, but even writing
for a large city (which I’m not) newspaper is rocky, with print media
continuing to evolve with the ever-growing interwebs. And while I would never
rule out a gig working for The New York
Times, I’m also not certain I’m passionate enough about journalism to want
something like that badly enough to make it happen for myself.
I like journalism well
enough and I'm so grateful to be an employed writer, but my love affair with writing has never really been about the truth – which defines journalism at its
very core – but about falling into another world, providing an escape from the
harsher realities of the universe.
And since I sort of gave
up screenwriting by leaving Los Angeles (not that I couldn’t ever write a movie
outside of the city, but writing for television is pretty much out of the
question now), my only other real avenue is novel-writing. I’ve pondered other
things – like starting a proofreading business or trying to make a living out
of blogging – but I find it almost detrimental to split my focus between
passions when I already have trouble sitting down to write.
It’s true that I’m a
procrastinator at heart, but a lot of that stems largely from my fear of
failure and the unrealistic expectations I place on myself. I have this idea of
what I need something to be and the idea that I might not meet my own creative
expectation sometimes stops me before I begin.
Hence why I’m only 40
pages into a story I started over a year ago.
And you can see how
largely problematic it is that I’ve created even more pressure by thinking, hey,
if you can’t make this work, what the hell are you gonna do? Because now
it’s even more essential that I find
a way to make this happen for myself.
I realize that I’m only
24 and I have time to accomplish these goals. But I also have other dreams – outside of my career
goals – that are a lot harder to realize if I don’t have stability. Things like
traveling and moving to another city. I don’t really wanna remain in my
hometown any longer than two years and it’s going to be incredibly difficult to
relocate to a city like Boston (my dream right now, though that could likely
change as I haven’t even been there) if I can’t move beyond my circumstances of
making barely a livable wage.
This would be the point
of my blog where I have an answer to my problem or at least a few shaky words
of wisdom that hopefully don’t sound too much like they’ve fallen out of a
fortune cookie.
But today, I don’t have
those answers.
It's okay to not have all the answers! Sending you prayers!
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